International Day of Non-violence Reflections

sculpture_mother clutching baby
Photo taken at the Cheonan Independence Museum, courtesy of Dr. Marilen Parungao-Balolong, PhD.

This poignant sculpture of a woman and child with the backdrop of war-torn Korea (could be early 1900), tug a string in my heart and got me wondering how this woman might have felt. These words came to me last night:

Is it grief, fear or hopelessness that is etched on your face?
Is it grief for love ones lost and only the warmth of your child’s breath
reminds you you’re still alive?
Is it fear for yours and this innocent baby’s own life?
Or is it hopelessness and resignation to the fact that death could be near and inevitable?

Oh you have suffered long and endured.
Your fear is palpable yet in your heart, there’s no room for resignation.
Grief and fear may assault the remaining thread of your hope,
but your love shall make you endure for another life depends on you.

The strength of the human spirit could triumph over the scourges of war,
but no mother and no child deserve to suffer as much.
You need not have to endure all these,
had they known that in war no one wins.

Some pictures and sculptures could stir the emotions and evoke a message begging to be released, yet words will never be eloquent enough to capture reality. Still I think they could be powerful tools that can be used to encourage young people to reflect on relevant themes (i.e. peace, conflict, structural violence, etc.) to promote non-violence and a culture of peace. It could also be used for an exercise on empathy, engaging young people to imagine what the characters in the picture think or feel.

So big thanks goes to you my dear friend, Lhen, for thinking of me yesterday when you tagged me to your IG post of this mother and child. Since today is the United Nation’s International Day of Non-violence, it’s a timely piece for reflection.

Every year on October 2, this global observance coincides with the birthday of the great Mahatma Gandhi, leader of the Indian independence movement and pioneer of the philosophy and strategy of non-violence.[1]Gandhi has been the inspiration for non-violent movements for civil rights and social change across the world. Throughout his life, Gandhi remained committed to his belief in non-violence even under oppressive conditions and in the face of seemingly insurmountable challenges. He showed the power of peacefully opposing oppression and hatred. He showed how cooperation and tolerance can prevail over injustice.  He demonstrated the great value of the rule of law in breaking vicious cycles of vengeance.” [2]

One of my favorite quotes of Gandhi is:

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What one change will you work on starting today to contribute to peace?

[2] Ban Ki-moon, 2015. Secretary-General’s Message for 2015 International Day of Non-violence


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